What is Pegging ?

Pegging is the sexual act where a woman dominants her man using a strap-on as she assumes and serves the role of the dominant sex partner at the cost of her man assuming and serving the role of the submissive partner.

In short, it’s when male and female parties reverse their roles for the fulfillment of sexual pleasures.

What Are The Sexual Pleasures?

The sexual pleasures associated with the female interested in pegging is found to be for the purpose of dominance and humiliation and for her male party, the purpose is to feel submissive and humiliated in the process of being pegged by his woman.

How Does Pegging Come to Question?

There are four ways the idea of pegging is proposed and executed between two parties by intention or by mistake such as:

  • Male parties propose the idea to their girlfriend or wife.
  • Female parties employ sexual manipulation tactics that lead up to pegging.
  • Males find pegging porn online and are discovered by their female party.
  • Male and female parties use hook-up sites or websites providing mistress/femdom services.

More ways do exist on how pegging is introduced but these are the four most common ways pegging is proposed between two parties.

With that said, how do these proposals work from start to finish regarding their processes behind the scenes? Well…

Proposal 1: Spicing Up Your Sex Life Indirectly


Proposing the idea of pegging to a girlfriend is not an easy task because most men are scared to reveal their submissive fantasy to the women they love.

Due to this most men wait until they become comfortable around their girlfriends before proposing the idea of pegging.

In most cases, it’s usually proposed after six-months of going at it like rabbits or after a few years of being with their girlfriend but even then they don’t usually propose their intention directly. You see…

The Indirect Proposal 

This cycle starts indirectly with the man dropping hints such as laughing at the idea of being penetrated or revealing dominant acts from women turn them on to their girlfriend.

This is to plant a seed in their girlfriends head without the man embarrassing himself if his girlfriend finds the idea repulsive upon revealing his secret fantasy slowly.

Women are smart so they usually catch on to these hints and in no time if the idea is appealing to them they start dropping hints themselves like saying “I would dominate you if you were open to it”.

The Blossoming Effect

This leads to a casual conversation between the two parties now discussing pegging which is brief at first, but in no time the girlfriend on average becomes more direct with her openly saying something like “Pegging seems like fun to me” frequently in between sex sessions or before the rush of getting naughty together.

This builds the boyfriends confidence and soon the two talk dirty about pegging and shortly after the female is dominating her man in the bedroom as the final result. Now their sex life is spicing up between the two through the act of pegging.

Proposal 2: Playing Chess Secretly For Long Term Purposes


Some women before they get into a relationship love pegging secretly and this secret of theirs is hidden from their partner until they feel they can condition their man into accepting pegging in the long term.

These females are usually well experienced with a history of converting men to the submissive role of being dominated.

This makes them highly influential in the bedroom when they have the right practice in place and employed which would be their sexual manipulation also known as the conditioning process.

A Brief Overview Of The Conditioning Process

The manipulation starts with casual vanilla sex and oral which later leads to botty play such as acts of rimming starting with the woman being rimmed followed by her returning the favor to her man.

As time progresses the female in the process of rimming uses her little finger to penetrate her man slowly which becomes the norm of their sexual sessions and with each session, the woman starts using her bigger fingers until she eventually starts using two or three at one time.

This leads to the male becoming accustomed to being penetrated over time and soon a small dildo is introduced by the woman.

With time and sessions of a man being penetrated by a small dildo, this eventually leads to a strap-on being proposed resulting in the couple welcoming pegging into their sex life that becomes a frequent act both engage in which was the manipulative female intention all along.

Proposal 3: Pornographic Pegging Found By Mistake


Most pornographic websites don’t list pegging as one of their main categories on their main page which is why most men learn about pegging by mistake from wandering around online.

When men do come across a video of a woman dominating a man by mistake this usually influences curiosity which is why men click on the video to check it out.

At first, it’s just something new and most men click off and never return to these contents but other men find an attraction which now leads them to keep coming back consuming more of the contents as time progresses.

The Secret Attraction Towards Pegging Exposed 

If these men have a girlfriend or wife eventually they find out usually when these men forget to delete their search history or if they fall asleep while watching the contents now leaving them open to being exposed.

Two outcomes can happen, outcome one is their girlfriend/wife is repulsed by the idea of pegging or outcome two is the idea of pegging strikes an interest in them where the women become open to the sexual act of pegging.

If outcome two becomes the case women usually make a claim like “If it makes you happen then I’m game” which is really women hiding their sexual interest to the act indirectly so they can make it appear like they’re willing to engage to make their man happy when really the idea excites these women just as much.

One conversation leads to another and soon these men are being pegged by their girlfriend or wife going forward.

Proposal 4: The Pegging Intention


Some men and women in the world know they love pegging from experience or from having a strong interest for pegging.

This could be if a woman has had a boyfriend in the past she once pegged or vice versa who are no longer together but that sexual interest for pegging remains.

On the other hand, it could be men or women who have no experience with pegging but with a strong desire to find a partner willing to engage.

Regardless of their status of experience, both parties are on a mission to find a pegging mate and most of these people targets websites to secure their sexual desires with an open-minded companion.

Websites such as hook-up sites, mistress service sites or even niche websites specializing in pegging are targeted with profiles being set up for the purpose of attracting a willing mate.

With a community website found and set up, it isn’t long before these men and women find a willing mate who is local or is within reaching distance. Once two meet online, they meet up for a casual meet to build a relationship starting with their common ground being their interest in pegging.

After both parties are comfortable with one another they engage in pegging now fulfilling their sexual demand in the process of dominating or being dominated. Mission accomplished.

Final Thoughts


There are so many ways you can experiment with pegging such as dressing the male party in female clothing such as panties, pantyhose, high heels, makeup and even wigs before you dominate your partner.

You could even include sex toys such as male and female chastity devices to control your sexual partner’s orgasms holding the key to their control and release and even bondage ropes and cuffs to control your partner’s functional characteristics.

So if pegging is a sexual act that does float your boat then you can have a lot of fun with it going forward.

An Invitation To The Hot Seat


Are you a woman or man who has experience with pegging or does the thought of pegging sound like a sexual act you would welcome into your sex life?

If so, share your pegging experience in the comment section below or even reveal your fantasy and voice your thoughts to share with the audience.

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